A famous
quote says ‘if you want one year of prosperity, grow grain. If you want ten
years of prosperity grow trees; but, if you want hundreds of years of
prosperity, nurture the youths’. Efficient and morality practicing young
generation is important and necessary aspect in nation building.
Statistics
reveal that presently; India has 50% of its total population below the age of
20 years and about 70% or more below the age of 35 years. Therefore India is
known as nation of youths in the world. India is predicted to be a world
superpower in next 10 to 15 years. Realization of this dream is largely based
on the assumed success and accomplishment of young generation. Thus, we can
conclude that if India or any nation for that matter, wants to gain and maintain
top position in the world in coming years, it is necessary to start and
continue the process of creating capable, virtuous and patriotic young
generation.
Educational
institutions, office bearers, principals, teachers, parents, government
officials, politicians responsible for educational policy making – all should
consider this fact before planning and implementing a strategy. Manashakti
Research Centre particularly and especially is working with this purpose. Its
objective is to help parents, teachers and others concerned in nurturing young
generation. With this objective, it is busy organizing many study camps and
related activities regularly for past many years. Recently a three days
conference was organized at Lonavla on the subject “Efforts required to bring
up the new generation with right character.”
Pursuit of happiness
Each one of
us mostly strives for happiness and happiness is the major objective. Parents attempt to fill
their child’s world with happiness. They always try hard to raise their child
properly and keep his or her life on correct track. But mostly they are
ignorant about the exact course of action to achieve their aim and often their
efforts result not yielding desired
results; end-up into failure. To some extent; this is applicable to schools and
teachers also.
If we review
the condition and status of children – from infants to teenagers - the overall
state of affairs we see is quite worrying.
9th June 2010 edition of English daily published from Mumbai displayed following headlines on front page:
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Two
and half year old child suffers from depression.
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A
rich Kid steals……just for the craze of thrill
We see quite often the news related to the stress, depression and resulting ill effects due to the erratic behavior in younger generation.
Today we can
easily hear about depression among six to ten years old children. High blood
pressure, diabetes is common in school and college students, at least during
the pre-exam period of high tension, as revealed in some social surveys published. Another published survey revealed that 50%
school students in a metropolitan city were of aggressive nature and show
tendency to become a gang member of bad boys operating in school campus.
Tough
competition; tension of study; increasing struggle due to ambition of getting
maximum marks; addiction of TV, mobile phones, social media and Internet games;
excessive / untimely eating and sleeping; exam fear; getting confused at the
time of exam; anger; unwillingness to attend
school; self-centered nature; lack of definite pre-set goal –
complaints coming
from parents are many and never-ending.
On one side tensed parents are worried
about future of children, on the other side; children are getting depressed and
aggressive due to various external factors. Dynamic lifestyle has provided us
many conveniences that we had never seen before. But it has also given birth to
worries and sorrows that were never present in our life in the past.
Where Is Happiness?
Matthieu
Ricard is a French scientist turned Buddhist monk. He has reputation of being
‘happiest person in the world’. He has published a book on ‘happiness’. He says
that our mind is flexible and constantly changing. We can dramatically change
our life, if we slightly change our attitude toward world and our perception of
external things.
How to
execute these changes? What exactly we should repair? To find the answers we
must entirely review the concept of happiness.
Happy Personality
In some of the earlier blog-articles; we have seen how the concept of happiness has been treated by Swamiji in terms of laws of motion and second law of thermodynamics, Entropy. Here we shall try to see this in another rational way.
Anybody who
really wants to be happy in life needs three things. They are:
1. Capacity to earn money for material
comforts – This requires Success in examinations.
2. Physical fitness – This requires
maintaining sound health.
3. Peace and satisfaction – This
requires appropriate behavior, nature or character.
It is always
beneficial to strive for them since the onset. Let’s try to understand it in
brief:
1. Success in Examination: One has to pass many exams with
flying colors since childhood to young age and even later in life. Syllabus,
Passing criteria and competition is part and parcel of every examination. We
need to study various things with devotion, honesty, concentration and
persistence. You have to prove your worth gradually by passing examination. Our
financial and other gains are determined according to this. Currently this
process continues from two and half / three years to twenty five years of age.
Many career options are present as per one’s interests and caliber. We can
choose from them. Even after completing academic studies, one has to face many
examinations and competition such as in job interview, promotion or while
starting new business. At each stage one has to ensure correct efforts and decisions for
further progress. One can earn wealth after all these efforts. In short, success in the examination is most
necessary.
Health: A person cannot be happy without
excellent physical health because only healthy and sound person is capable of
enjoying all the pleasure we get from wealth. For instance, a person might have
financial capacity to eat tasty sweets every day. But if he has diabetes, he is
absolutely forbidden to do so. We cannot enjoy any pleasure without health. Our
body is made of many organs, cells and various systems (such as digestive
system, respiratory system, etc.). Their complicated functioning needs proper
balance and sound health of each body component which is important for day to day activities. So a person must include well-planned
and controlled diet, recreation, rest and exercise in his lifestyle. Parents
must consciously take care and lay foundation of child’s health since childhood. Today health care
is a matter of big concern. Many physical and psychological illnesses of adult
age are arriving early at young age on large scale due to faulty lifestyle and
food habits.
3 Nature or Character: These two factors mentioned above, i.e. success in
examination and health might be favorable to a person, but no one can be happy
without appropriate nature (behavior). Negative, unsatisfied, egoistic, vain
person remains unsatisfied and unhappy in spite of favorable conditions. On the
other hand, person having appropriate character, nature can reduce his
unhappiness by remaining balanced even during adverse health and wealth
conditions. Nature of a person means attitude, motivation, tendencies, behavior
and character. All these things are important and essential for happiness.
Therefore cultivating, nurturing proper nature, building character plays very
important role in creating new young generation to face life challenges in the
years to come. In fact it may not be wrong to conclude that while the first two factors are important, this third factor is vitally more important.
Character building
Character
building by increasing emotional quotient is a hot topic of discussion among
thinkers in the world today. An international conference on ‘Educating world
citizens for the 21st century’ was held in October 2009 at
Washington, USA, under leadership of Dalai Lama. This important issue is at the
center of discussion amongst thinkers all over world. The process
of developing nature and character mainly takes place in childhood, i.e. up
till age of 12 to 14 years. To accomplish proper things in this process,
parents and teachers can contribute on large scale and media and government can
also play their proper role. It is necessary to create awareness and give
training in this regard. Many experts have presented their viewpoint on this
aspect in the recently held Manashakti conference also.
(The conference details at link 'http://educon.manashakti.org/20-Jan17.html')
(The conference details at link 'http://educon.manashakti.org/20-Jan17.html')
In
prevailing education system emphasize is put on scoring the marks and grades in
examination. Curriculum and training regarding focus on health and character
building attracts very less attention or is completely ignored. This aspect assumes high importance in MANASHAKTI efforts in nurturing youth. We shall see more on this in the articles to follow.
With due emphasis on Character Development, we have to prepare the revised-new rational education policy to nurture the
overall personality (i.e. success in examination, health and character) of the
child during the journey form prenatal stage to youth.We should take into
account advantages and disadvantages of current education system to find out
appropriate solutions and plug the loopholes. For doing this we need
co-operation from all concerned. While determining these details of action; we
should first objectively review when, where, how and by what means the learning
process takes place in the life of child. So we could understand how to make
that process more favorable and appropriate. The subject was discussed in its
basics by Swamiji in his book “Save Your Child from Yourself”.
We shall
review this; in the article to follow.
Vijay R.
Joshi.
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