Actions are the seeds of fate, deeds grow into destiny.
When a seed is sown
into ground, you cannot immediately see the plant. With time and intentional
efforts, it grows into a large tree. Then the flowers bloom and only then the
fruits can be plucked.
The best outcome is
ensured by proper seed and noble intentions for nurture in right direction.
The pre-conception
efforts if followed by right parenting endeavor in prenatal and early years of
the child, it would be useful for the youngster for developing balanced
personality.
For the purpose of family, nation as well as total humanity welfare in
mind, we are trying to understand measures we can take to create well-mannered
young generation. In last article we discussed the formula for procreative
conception. The period from conception to the birth of baby is also important.
Can we use this period for the development of a child? This article tries to
discuss this.
Classic Examples of Prenatal Education
We all are aware of story of Abhimanyu in the world famous epic
Mahabharata. While Shri Krishna explains Chakravyuva (certain battle field
arrangement) to his sister Subhadra, with fetus in her womb i.e. Abhimanyu,
listens to same of its part. Later, he used this knowledge at the time of
Mahabharata war. Examples of prenatal education are also found in the
biographies of Bhagwan Buddha, Bhakta Pralhada, Shivaji Maharaj, Mahatma Phule
& Vir Sawarkar. The recent example is Tabla Maestro Zakir Hussain. Except
these occasional examples, we do not see easy availability of prenatal education
method to common people. On the other hand, many years modern medicine had declined that a
child can understand and learn during prenatal stage.
Prenatal Education – Opinions of Experts
and Scientists
Earlier scientists thought that a fetus has no awareness of the
environment in a womb of a mother. Recent experiments in this field has Proven
it wrong. A fetus has perception of many kinds. This Knowledge plays very
important role in his growth and development. This is the opinion of French
expert prof. Jean Pierre Relier. According to American expert Fredrick Wirth, fetus
has deep impact of your emotions, thoughts & action during prenatal stage
to post birth stage.
Canadian Expert Thomas Verney says, the experience from the moment of
conception is important in the development of brain. Child’s personality,
nature and high thinking ability develop on the basis of it. Worldwide research
has now proved that prenatal education is necessary for nurturing the future
generation not only in the interest of an individual or family but also for
world peace and security. For last several years, number of research papers are
being published by scientists explain the importance of prenatal efforts.
Summaries of some research papers are
given.
Some latest research references.
Pregnant women respond to music with stronger physiological changes in
blood pressure
Date: May 20, 2014. Source: Max-Planck-Gesellschaft
Date: May 20, 2014. Source: Max-Planck-Gesellschaft
Summary: Pregnant women, compared to their
non-pregnant counterparts, rate music as more intensely pleasant and unpleasant,
associated with greater changes in blood pressure, a study has demonstrated.
Music appears to have an especially strong influence on pregnant women, a fact
that may relate to a prenatal conditioning of the fetus to music.
Fear of Childbirth Predicts Postpartum Depression
Jan. 3, 2014 — Expectant women
with prenatally diagnosed fear of childbirth are at an increased risk of
postpartum depression, according to a study of over 500,000 mothers in Finland.
Women with a history of depression are at the highest risk of postpartum
depression. The fact that fear of childbirth puts women without a history of
depression at an approximately three times higher risk of postpartum depression
is a new observation which may help health care professionals in recognizing
postpartum depression. The results were published recently in BMJ Open.
Exercise during Pregnancy Gives Newborn Brain Development Head Start
Nov. 10, 2013 — As little as 20
minutes of moderate exercise three times per week during pregnancy enhances the
newborn child's brain development, according to researchers at the University
of Montreal and its affiliated CHU Sainte-Justine children's hospital. This
head-start could have an impact on the child's entire life.
Babies Can Learn Their First Lullabies in the Womb
Oct. 30, 2013 —
Infant can recognize a lullaby heard in the womb for several months after
birth, potentially supporting later speech development. This is indicated in a
new study at the University of Helsinki.
Capacity of Fetus to Acquire Knowledge
A person gains various experiences during his life time. Brain is
sensitive to the experience of every moment. But brain is most sensitive during
prenatal and post birth stage few early years when brain’s development takes
place at maximum speed. Emotions of mother affect fetus in her womb. If mother
is stressed, a hormone called catecholamine is produced in her body. It reaches
to the fetus. Fetus experiences much more stress than a mother. On the other
hand, if mother has soft & tender emotions of love then hormones called
Endorphin, Oxytocin are produced in the body of mother. These hormones reach to
fetus and affect positively.
Prenatal Progress of A Fetus
Fetus starts experiencing and learning from the first moment of
existence. Therefore condition of a mother and her surroundings are important
at this stage. Growth of a fetus is known to take place as follows:
15 days: First cell of a brain is created.
3rd week: First heartbeat.
3rd month: All organs, which a developed person has, are
created.
4th month: Starts listening.
5-6thmonth: Fetus can listen very well. Remembers
stories/songs heard.
7th month: Fetus can listen & see. Understands smell,
taste and touch.
8th month: Memory and decision making activities start. Fetus
dreams, prepares himself to take birth.
9th month: Fetus weighs approximately 3 kg. Heart
circulates around 300 gallon blood. When growth is complete fetus sends message
to the mother through brain. Labor pain begins and child is born.
Thus as the life and organs develop in pre-birth stage, the learning
or nurturing of the fetus takes place. This process can be used for the better
future of the child by intentional and planned efforts by the parents.
Important Information for Parents
If you want to impart prenatal education/sanskars on child, the main
responsibility of it lies on mother and father. “I/We will behave as we like, as we wish, but my child must be good
behaved and well-mannered”. Such attitude on parts of mother and father cannot
be considered logical and scientific. It is important to cherish the feeling
that parents desire this child from the bottom of their heart and they are
eager to welcome and receive him/her in this world.
It is important to eat nutritious (Satvik) diet*, be happy, having
tension free behavior, avoid all kinds of addictions and bad habits.(*Refer:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sattvic_diet)
Mother should stay among the people who care for her. She can lovingly
care more for the fetus, if she gets security, care and love from her family. If
conception takes place with resolution of a couple and later, they lovingly
take care for fetus till its birth, it will benefit the child throughout his
life. Temporary psychological tensions and troubles do not have particular
effect on fetus. But long term, severe tensions of a mother creates possibility
of adverse effect on fetus.
Prospective parents should deliberately try to remain calm, balanced
and maintain satvik (pious) nature during prenatal stage of a child. Hormones
created in mother’s body during this stage plays important role in developing
brain cells and later personality of a child.
In prenatal stage, if you nurture child with love, affection and
unwavering faith, then a child can learn behavioral skills in his life at a
proper time.
A role of father is also as important as that of mother.
Do all this while doing your day to day activity, job and business.
Prenatal Help from Manashakti Research Centre
At Manashakti, the work of prenatal sanskar is going on for last over
fifty years. A 3 day study camp is organized at Lonavala and one day seminars
are organized for sizable groups of child expecting couples at different towns
all over India as per demand. Every year more than thousand couples are benefited
from this training. A thesis is published based on information collected from
the 2000 children with prenatal sanskars. It is now proven that these efforts
are beneficial to child in his future life.
Garbh Sanskar (Prenatal Education)
(http://www.manashakti.org/content/garbh-sanskar-prenatal-education-experiments)
(http://www.manashakti.org/content/garbh-sanskar-prenatal-education-experiments)
Every parent wishes to have a talented and virtuous child. All virtues
can be acquired through the Sanskar (i.e. purification) process. Today, science
proves that the fetus can learn and memorize; and hence, good values can be
imparted to it. Manashakti is experimenting with and propogating the concept of
Garbh-Sanskar since 1961 and has received international acclaim too! Thus, to
procreate a bright, healthy & cultured baby, literature and products are available.
To maintain good health, it essential to practice Yogic postures (Yogasane)
consistently, and during pregnancy, this becomes even more important. Doing
yoga would go a long way in reducing transient problems/disorders during
pregnancy, and for an easy and natural delivery.
1. Prayer
2. Preliminary Yoga for warming-up
3. Yogic postures to be done specifically in each pregnancy trimester
4. Shanti Mantra
5. A booklet showing various yogasanas.
This Garbhasangeet has been specially created to develop courage and
peace in the baby-in-the-womb, as also, as a service to the society.
This is an unsurpassed music for the baby in the womb. It is an
excellent way to infuse good values in the baby, and strengthen the bonding,
with the fetus.
Contents:-
1. Gayatri Mantra ( Rag Yaman and Rag Bhairav)
2. Rag Yaman, Bageshri, Bilawal, and Todi ( Vocal)
3. Rag Lalat, Rag Kedar ( Violin)
4. Parade Song
5. Garbhopanishad, and a
5. Garbhopanishad, and a
6. Western composition.
The would-be parents are expected to listen to this music every day,
soon after the conception is confirmed. This would go a long way in reducing
their stress, and also impart good values to the baby through the medium of
music!
Books /
Publications:
(http://www.manashakti.org/events-schedule/books)
(http://www.manashakti.org/events-schedule/books)
Detailed guidance about how one can impart best prenatal sanskars with help of prayers, music, story, reading, games, diet, Yogasanas and meditation is available from Manashakti prenatal education project. This project aims at creating new well-mannered generations to build nations to serve the humanity at large.
Post Birth..
First seven years in the life of child after birth are important for
the development of the emotional part of the personality. These are very relevant
and useful years for the proper parenting efforts. This would be the topic of
our next article.
Vijay R. Joshi.
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