Uncertainty about its aims
Although Education is an instrument as
well as a catalyst of social transformation and expected to bring about
qualitative change in man’s perception, attitudes, habits, priority and goals,
the real sense of values in recent days is somewhere missing. Moreover, the
present system of education is information oriented not character-based. It is
consumerist in nature and tends to make one selfish, self-centered, irreverent
and cynical. It sharpens reasons but hardens the heart. It lays little or no
emphasis on such basic values as truth, love, honesty, humility, compassion,
forbearance and justice. It makes one conscious about one’s rights not duties.
The net result is that a strongly individualistic and materialistic culture has
taken birth, which promotes self-aggrandizement, nurtures opportunism and
chicanery, and generates tension in society.
The ghost of technological power
unwittingly released by man can be contained only by the right kind of
education which combines science with spirituality, fitness with health,
reasons with faith, empirical knowledge with intuition and insight; which keeps
both progress and peace as its goals and is helpful in mitigating social evils.
The parenting in the earlier years and character education in school hours has
to be re-organized to meet the needs of the fast moving world.
The Right Approach
Foundation for nurturing the character
has to be set at the earliest, even at preconception and prenatal level. Though it’s never too
late to be right, one needs to be totally flexible to melt into new mental
mold. Right from prenatal stage to the age of seven, major brain development
takes place which is the correct time for the emotional foundation of the child. Emotional
and physical, both types of growths are almost complete at age 21. It’s a vital
period to inculcate right values and ideas. Teachers, parents and every member
of the society concerned, have a key role to play in preparing kids for life and
not just for exams and careers. However, elders cannot go on preaching and teaching
as they must lead by example. Children learn more through observation.
Therefore the proper behavior on parts of parents and teachers is necessary.
Indian thinkers and sages have put forth their views in classical literature. Patanjali’s
Ashtang yoga is the master plan laid out for the entire life, a guide for
highest human evolution by own efforts.
YAMAS AND NIYAMAS.
The age-old Ashtanga Yoga system in its
initial steps; namely Yama and Niyama ensures the above aspect. If this is imparted properly, children will
have a strong base and problems in the next generation will be substantially lesser.
YAMA (यम
-
Duty for others)
Ahimsa (अहिंसा): Non-violence. Inflicting no injuries or
harm to others even to own self. Non – violence of thoughts, words and deeds.
Satya (सत्य): Truth in word and thought.
Asteya : (अस्तेय) Non – covetousness to the extent that one
should not even desire something that is not his own.
Brahmacharya (ब्रह्मचर्य) : Abstain from sexual intercourse. To the
extent that one should not possess any unholy thought towards any other man or
woman except one’s own spouse.
Aparigrah (अपरिग्रह) : Non – possessiveness.
NIYAMA (नियम-Duty for
self)
Shaucha (शौच): Cleanliness of body and mind.
Santosha (संतोष): Satisfaction. Satisfied with what one gets
after right efforts.
Tapas (तपस): Austerity and associated observances body
discipline and thereby mental control.
Swadhya (स्वाध्याय): Study of the Vedic scriptures
(spirituality) to know about God and Soul, which leads to introspection on a
greater awakening to the soul and God within.
Ishwarpranidhan (ईश्वर प्रणिधान): Surrender to (or worship of) God / cosmic power.
A Road Map for Life:
The yamas and niyamas are the
foundation for a meaningful and Life changing yoga path. They are not only
useful for the kids but also for all elders. Living according to these
principles bring Peace, joy, and understanding to your world. Your compassion
and awareness will grow, and your life journey will flourish. As you begin
incorporating the Yamas and Niyamas into your everyday life, it would lead to positive
changes! This is the right path for the nurture of right character, and total
personality development of a person.
Character is everything
Money can give you bread, But not
hunger.
Money can give you bed, But not sleep.
Money can give you medicine, not
health.
Money can give you comfort, But not
peace.
Money can give you power, But not
respect.
Money can give you degree, not
knowledge.
Money can give you security, not
freedom.
It is CHARACTER and CHARACTER alone
that can give you … Everything
What is the assistance available from Manashakti?
Manashakti Research Centre conducts
special training camps for the children and their parents, teachers on this
subject. The training camps receive an overwhelming response as it is useful to
help parents in molding character of the kids. Every parent’s experience of
raising a teenager is different. More parents probably need support than ask
for it. If you have concerns about your teenager’s behavior, MANASHAKTI can
help. Counselling for specific issues you face and group guidance / counselling
is available. Some relevant training programs are given.
Youvanachya
Kranti-disha (Revolution in Youth-hood)
This course is meant for teenagers
between the age 15 and 21 years. It covers:
1. A special session to enhance better
communication between parents and pupils.
2. The technique to develop the right brain along with the left brain.
3. The three day camp at a stage of life when youths wish to prove themselves.
4. The scientific information, guidance and test based solutions about the various
Stages of intellectual and emotional development along with the physical development.
2. The technique to develop the right brain along with the left brain.
3. The three day camp at a stage of life when youths wish to prove themselves.
4. The scientific information, guidance and test based solutions about the various
Stages of intellectual and emotional development along with the physical development.
Kutumb-Sukha-Vardhan
(Family Contentment)
This course is conducted for parents. In
it, basic remedies in principle, on various problems in family life are
suggested. The course is designed to guide as to what should be the role of the
parents when their children are coming of age as independent personalities, how
to guide them while maintaining a friendly relationship, how to help them in
getting over their intellectual, physical and psychological stress and how to
find a golden median amidst all of this and enhance the overall happiness of
the family. This course is conducted parallel for the parents while their
children undergo the Youth Revolution course. This course also discusses a
number of tips to establish stability in the family. Duration: 3
days
Activities for Teenagers
Teenage is a time of bubbling
exuberance, dreaming about goals, boldness to face challenges; a gushing yet a
tremulous, sensitive mind having empathy for others! A time when one prefers
the company and joy of friends to one’s parents! It's like standing at a
crossroad having attractive avenues of future colorful life! At this time, your
life can take a successful turn if competent and prudent guidance is at your
hand! Manashakti helps through Books,
Workshops, Machine Test, Experimental
aids, Health Products etc. The
details can be seen from website www.manashakti.org.
The most serious weakness in modern education is the uncertainty about its aims:
The most serious weakness in modern education is the uncertainty about its aims:
A famous quote on education says “When
I was bachelor and doing research I had 5 different theories on parenting. Now
married having two kids, I can’t practice any one”.
Though many of the above points are
known, why they are very difficult to practice in prevailing lifestyle? Swami
Vijnananand, the founder of Manashakti deals on this in his book “Save your child from yourself”, as
follows:
The champions of the cause of ideal
education the world over, unreservedly give assent to salient features of model
education.
(a) The primary necessity is to impart
moral education, a mission which is hardly mechanical.
(b) The pupils possess receptivity
beyond our stretch of imagination. They of course learn by our actions. Equally
our words subscribe to build their wit, wisdom and personality.
(c) The
essence of education is character-building. Parents in the uphill task should
share with the school the bulk of the burden.
Instructors, guides, relatives,
priests, parents are too many cooks that spoil the broth. Ordinarily most of
them are incompetent to take up the task, when they themselves lack moral
conception as well as character. Over and above, they hang fire having no
courage to admit it. It is in this sense that the proclaimed aims of education
have admittedly ended in smoke.
It is imperative to check up where the
shoe pinches. The shoe, pinches where our, own imperfection is evidenced. The
delicate embarrassment experienced in acceptance of the moral measure by the
parents themselves becomes apparent. They accept moral education as the aim not
to be ever fulfilled in practice. None dare pit against canons of morality in
theory, therefore- `morality' in education is an accepted goal. But none cares
implementing the conditions put forth by ethical law, in the name of formidable
practical difficulties in life. As if, all concerned; the parents-and the
educationist, have come to an unwritten understanding that, `truth' should be
talked of with unrestricted vigor; but practiced or taught strictly when
remunerative.
In this world of unbounded, chaotic
selfishness, the children inherit pure selfishness-more than his parents goad
him to learn. Obviously because the child excels the parents in intelligence.
When the child himself ascends to the adult age he learns by heart unqualified
selfishness. He himself becomes chaotic. The parents have no clue to the
Gordian knot because they themselves were very small kids some decades back and
were taught untruth, howsoever inadvertently.
This has to be a collective movement.
Parents may take following stance dealing with their children: “I know my child is born with some of my attributes and it is my responsibility to bring him up properly. But still I have to respect him as a unique and different person. It is not necessary that his entire thinking and behavior will be according to my opinion. I must first accept a fact that my child’s point of view can be different from my point of view. Otherwise my efforts will not be in a right direction.
“It is not a one way process. What I preach has to by my practice.
While I would like my child to develop as a responsible citizen with high
values of life, I would endeavor to nurture in the best possible manner. Not the efforts are essential only for my kid,
but this message has to spread effectively in society so that all kids in the
upcoming generation will develop in proper manner. This has to be collective
process wherein all members of the society have to be involved to seek cooperation.
This awareness has to be created by collective efforts. To the extent possible
I would share my efforts towards this need”. Everyone need to resolve to devote
some small percentage of own resources/abilities (time/money) for this
important cause of the future world.
This has to be a collective movement.
Vijay R. Joshi.
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